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Menopause refers to a single episode in a woman's life, her "last" period and the end of female reproduction . Menopause is confirmed when a woman has gone one full year without having a period. The day after that one-year mark, she's now postmenopausal yet people refer to it as menopause. Typically, this occurs around age 52 but the age range runs 40–60, with many who experience it earlier or later.
Although perimenopause is defined as the time before "the change," its starting point isn't so definitive. It's a nebulous concept and you enter into it gradually and come out of it gradually. So, there is no easy, identifying place of how or when it starts. It can last for 8-10 years
Perimenopause is a result of a woman's aging ovaries, specifically when the coordinated patterns of the hormones estrogen and progesterone begin to vary, throwing the delicate system out of balance. It may take a while to detect symptoms, with a period still evident (although possibly shorter in duration, not as regular for instance), and then you may start to notice other small changes or not until you suddenly do...
Perimenopause can start when a woman is in her 30s or 40s, but the 40s are more common. It typically lasts 6–10 years and the experience varies considerably for many.
Perimenopause is marked by a drop in estrogen which is the main female hormone produced by the ovaries. The estrogen levels can also go up and down more sporadically than they do in a typical 28-day cycle. This can cause irregular periods and other symptoms.
During the final stages of perimenopause, your body will produce less and less estrogen. Despite the sharp drop in estrogen, it’s still possible to get pregnant. Perimenopause can last for as little as a few months and as long as 4 years
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Menopause officially kicks in when the ovaries produce so little estrogen that eggs are no longer released. This also causes your period to stop
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Your doctor will diagnose menopause once you haven’t had a period for a full year.
You may enter menopause earlier than normal
if you:
have a family history of early menopause
are a smoker
have had a hysterectomy or oophorectomy
have undergone cancer treatments.
Can you tell by a blood test if I am in perimenopause?
Most people can tell by the symptoms that they've started menopause. If you have worries about irregular periods or hot flashes, talk with your healthcare professional.
Tests most often aren't needed to diagnose menopause. But sometimes, your healthcare professional may suggest blood tests to check your levels of:
Follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and estrogen (estradiol).
FSHgoes up and estrogen goes down during menopause. Because hormones go up and down during perimenopause, it can be hard to tell from these tests whether you're in menopause.
Thyroid-stimulating hormone (TSH). Overactive thyroid, called hyperthyroidism, can cause symptoms like those of menopause.
You can get home tests to check FSH levels in your urine without a prescription. The tests show whether you have higher FSH levels. This might mean that you're in perimenopause or menopause, But FSH levels rise and fall during your menstrual cycle. So home FSH tests can't really tell you whether you're in menopause.
When hormone levels begin to decline in the lead-up to menopause, every system that has hormone receptors registers the change, including your brain. Ongoing fluctuation in hormone levels during this time can cause a range of symptoms, which may vary greatly between women and even change over time. Symptoms can range from mild to severe, and while some women may not experience many symptoms, others may experience a variety of issues that can significantly impact their quality of life. Even minor symptoms can have a major effect, especially if they persist over time. The long-term effects of menopause include an increased risk of osteoporosis and cardiovascular disease. If you are experiencing symptoms, it is important to discuss them with your GP or gynaecologist to explore appropriate management strategies.
As estrogen levels drop, you might start experiencing symptoms of menopause. Some of these can occur while you’re still at the perimenopause stage.
night sweats
hot flashes
depression
anxiety
irritability and mood swings
insomnia
fatigue
dry skin
vaginal dryness
frequent urination
Perimenopause and menopause can also increase cholesterol levels. This is one reason why women in postmenopause are at an even higher risk for heart disease.
Continue to have your cholesterol levels measured at least once a year.
You don’t necessarily have to call your doctor to obtain a perimenopause or menopause diagnosis but you should see your your doctor if the symptoms of either perimenopause or menopause become severe enough to interfere with your daily life.
For a checklist on what to ask and discuss with your doctor, refer to our website at "What to discuss with your GP"
For details on Treatment options to ease your symptoms refer to our website "Treatment options"
There are various ways to treat the symptoms of menopause, again often depending on the severity of the symptoms. Lifestyle changes outlined on this website including strategies such as exercise, nutrition, stress reduction techniques, sleep help strategies often help many menopause symptoms but, subject to obtaining your own independent medical advice, the following prescription and over-the-counter (OTC) treatments may available for perimenopause and menopause.
Menopause treatments aim to ease symptoms and prevent or manage ongoing conditions that may happen with aging. Any treatment will depend on the person, their family history and medical background, the medication they are already having, their mental health, the severity of their symptoms and their own independent doctor's advice.
Below however are some of the more common treatments used to ease symptoms:
Hormone therapy.
Estrogen therapy works best for easing menopausal hot flashes. It also eases other menopause symptoms and slows bone loss.
Your healthcare professional may suggest estrogen in the lowest dose and for the time needed to relieve your symptoms. It's best used by people who are younger than 60 and within 10 years of the onset of menopause. If you still have your uterus, you'll need progestin with estrogen. Estrogen also helps prevent bone loss. Long-term use of hormone therapy may have some heart disease and breast cancer risks. But starting hormones around the time of menopause has shown benefits for some people. Talk with your healthcare professional about whether hormone therapy may be safe for you.
Vaginal estrogen.
To relieve vaginal dryness, you can apply estrogen to the vagina using a vaginal cream, tablet or ring. This treatment gives you a small amount of estrogen, which the vaginal tissues take in. It can help ease vaginal dryness, pain with intercourse and some urinary symptoms.
Medications to help prevent bone thinning osteoporosis.
Your healthcare professional might suggest medicine to prevent or treat osteoporosis. Several medicines can help reduce bone loss and risk of fractures. Your healthcare professional also might prescribe vitamin D supplements to help strengthen bones.
Oral contraceptives
Heavy or irregular periods and hot flashes may benefit from this medicine that evens out hormonal fluctuations.
Menopausal hormonal therapy
: (Formerly known as HRT) Like oral contraceptives, this is a low dose of hormones to supplement estrogen levels. It helps with hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, emotional issues and vaginal dryness.
Low-dose antidepressants
Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) like Prozac may relieve hot flashes, mood swings and irritability by modifying the brain signals.
Counselling, Menopause Coaches, Psychologist
Brain fog, anxiety, depression, dependence on alcohol, sleep issues - cognitive behaviour and other talking therapy with a qualified psychologist
Lifestyle changes
A healthier diet with less animal fat and processed sugar, exercise, relaxation techniques such as meditation, yoga, and a consistent sleep schedule may relieve some of the symptoms, including weight gain, irritability and insomnia.
Vaginal lubricants
For vaginal irritations, use water-based vaginal lubricants or prescription vaginal creams
Allied health services and holistic integrative therapy
Acupuncture, naturopathy, breathwork, nutritionists, psychologists, counsellors, hypnosis, dermatologist, pelvic floor exercise support, yoga, thi chai mindfulness techniques and massages.
Talk with other people
Reach out and be open about it with others in your life and stay connected socially with people. Don't forget this affects 50% of the population and we can openly chat about our labours, pregnancy, periods etc!
Various supplements may be of help but there is unfortunately little evidence to prove:
Ginseng
St Johns Wart
Melatonin
Hot Flushes
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Night Sweats
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Sleep Disorders
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Mood Swings
Irritability
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Vaginal changes
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Low Libido
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Fatigue
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Weight Gain
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Muscle Tension
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Memory Loss
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Breast Pain & Tenderness
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Bloating
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Lack of Concentration
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skin issues
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Irregular Periods
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Hormonal Headaches
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Heart Palpitations
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Hair Loss
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Osteoporosis
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Panic Disorder
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Dizziness/faint
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Digestive Problems
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Burning Tongue
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Increased Allergies
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Sleep Disorders
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anxiety/depression
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Sleep Disorders
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digestive issues
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tinnitus
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dry, itchy eyes, ears, skin
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loss of confidence/self esteem
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quickly angered/rage
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Going through a Separation can be one of the most harrowing experiences in your life. You can experience grief, overwhelm, and confusion. Here are five common mistakes made by people, especially in the earlier stages of separation and divorce, which can cause them to come unstuck in the process:
1. Oversharing on Social Media
It might feel natural to vent online, but social media can be a legal landmine during family disputes. Posts, comments, or photos can be used against you in court and may even breach the Family Law Act, resulting in fines or more serious consequences. Sharing details about your case online could harm your credibility or influence property and parenting decisions. When in doubt, stay offline!
2. Delaying Getting Support and Advice
Too often, people wait until things escalate before getting advice to help them get emotionally supported, to be educated on the process, understand their rights, to make informed decisions, to prevent them from unintentionally inflaming negotiations. Remember, there is no automatic 50/50 split in parenting or property matters. Avoid being pressured into unfair agreements and avoid reliance on well-meaning but uninformed advice from friends or family.
3. Avoiding Full Financial Disclosure
Financial transparency is non-negotiable in family law property matters. If one party withholds financial information, it can jeopardise the fairness of the property settlement and lead to serious legal consequences, including potential imprisonment.
4. Ignoring Your Own Well-Being
The stress of legal matters is often compounded by emotional burnout. The impact can take a serious toll on your mental and physical health. Seeking support from our team of counsellors, separation coaches or support groups isn’t just good for your health—it can help your legal case, too. A clear head will help you make better decisions for your future and enable you to continue supporting your children through this difficult time.
5. Relying on Informal Agreements
Verbal or informal (non binding) agreements may seem convenient but can unravel quickly —especially if one party's financial circumstances change. To protect yourself long-term, ensure all agreements are formalised through Court Orders or Financial Agreements. This is particularly important in parenting arrangements, where informal arrangements can lead to disputes or even child access issues. Formal agreements, such as a parenting plan or Consent Orders provide clarity and protect both parents and children.
Family law doesn’t just affect the present—it shapes your future. By avoiding these common mistakes, you protect your rights, your children, and your peace of mind. Don’t hesitate to seek assistance early—it could save you time, money, and heartache down the line.
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